What to Gift When You Don’t Know Their Style
Find a thoughtful Kendra Scott gift by starting with one small detail about how they like to accessorize.
Thoughtful gifting starts here
When you don’t know their style, start with a simple pendant necklace if you know they wear necklaces, or understated studs if you know they wear pierced earrings. Look for familiar colors and uncomplicated shapes. If even those preferences are unknown, ask one thoughtful question before choosing rather than guessing.
- Choose a jewelry type you have seen them wear.
- Check fit, closures, and materials before deciding.
- Let a personal note carry the meaning when style clues are limited.
Pendant necklace or stud earrings?
| Feature | Pendant necklaces | Stud earrings |
|---|---|---|
| Choose when you know | They wear necklaces, even if you don’t know their full jewelry style. | They have pierced ears and enjoy wearing studs. |
| Design to look for | A simple pendant with a delicate chain. | An understated shape without a dangling detail. |
| Fit details to check | Chain length, pendant dimensions, clasp, and any listed extender. | Earring dimensions, closure, and whether the listing is for a pair or a single stud. |
| Styling direction | A single focal point worn alone or alongside their other necklaces. | A finishing detail that leaves the neckline open. |
| Reason to pause | You don’t know whether they enjoy necklaces or which length they prefer. | You haven’t confirmed pierced ears or any material sensitivities. |
Choose with a little more confidence
- Choose a simple pendant necklace if you have seen them wear delicate necklaces and can check their preferred length.
- Choose understated stud earrings if you know they wear pierced earrings and prefer a subtle finishing touch.
- Choose to ask before buying if their jewelry habits, preferred colors, or material sensitivities are still unknown.
Start with what they already reach for
You don’t need to decode their entire wardrobe to choose thoughtfully. Think about the jewelry you have seen them wear more than once: a delicate necklace, small earrings, or a particular color. Use that observation as your starting point, then keep the remaining details simple. If you have no clues, ask whether they prefer necklaces or earrings. That small question still leaves room for a surprise while helping you choose something that respects their way of expressing themselves.
Make the meaning personal, not the guesswork
A gift can celebrate your connection without relying on a specific symbol or favorite color. When their taste is unfamiliar, consider an uncomplicated silhouette and add a note about the moment you are celebrating. Save distinctive motifs or personalized details for preferences you can confirm. Before you decide, read the individual listing for materials, dimensions, and closure details. A thoughtful choice considers both how a piece looks and whether its fit and construction suit the person receiving it.
Key details before you gift
- Color and construction
- A gold or silver color does not tell you the full metal construction; read the individual product details.
- Necklace adjustability
- Check for a listed extender rather than assuming every necklace is adjustable.
- Earring quantity
- The Kendra Scott assortment includes both pairs and single stud earrings.
- Material preferences
- Confirm any known sensitivities and compare them with the stated materials before purchasing.
- Personal connection
- A handwritten message can make a simple design feel connected to your shared moment.
Explore pendant necklaces
Start with delicate chains and simple pendant shapes, then check the length and materials of your favorite design.
Explore stud earrings
Look for an understated silhouette in a color they wear, and confirm the closure and quantity before gifting.
Frequently asked questions
Start with a simple pendant necklace or understated studs, depending on what you know they already wear. Neither is a universal choice, so ask about their preferred jewelry type if you have no clues.
Confirm that detail before choosing pierced earrings. A pendant necklace is another option if you know they like wearing necklaces.
Look at the color of jewelry they wear regularly, or ask someone close to them. Once you choose a color, check the product’s stated metal construction rather than treating color as a material description.
Personalize only when you are confident about the detail they would want. Otherwise, keep the design simple and use a handwritten note to make the gift meaningful.
Review the stated materials, dimensions, closure, and any adjustment options. For earrings, also check whether the listing is for a pair or a single stud, and confirm any known material sensitivities.